Committed relationships are challenging. Most of our challenging endeavors require a mentor, role model or teacher. For example, if you want to become a good pianist, you need to take lessons and practice; the same goes if you want to be an excellent skiier, doctor, etc. Being a great marital partner is AT LEAST as challenging [...]
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This blog brings up how to think about and deal with the problem of a partner doing internet porn.
This is another one of my series of the most asked questions (with answers) that I have been blogging about. I go into greater detail about the subject of this particular entryin my book, “The Long, Hot Marriage.” You can learn about and purchase the book on my website- www.toddcreager.com or at www.thelonghotmarriage.com. Q: I feel like [...]
Q: My partner and I are so different. Can you have a good marriage with someone whom you apparently have nothing in common? Most couples have many differences. Just like the North and South poles of a magnet, opposites attract at least to a degree. It is not necessary to be interested in what your [...]
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Q: It has been so long since I have felt close to my partner. Is there any chance we can feel close again? A: Unless your partner has grieved the relationship and emotionally moved on, it is very possible to feel close again. Couples get locked into emotional dances that often distance the couple from [...]
Here is another question in the series of most asked questions also with an answer (of course). Q: I feel like no matter what I do for my spouse, it is not enough. Is there any way to please my partner? A: Almost always, yes. You may be doing a lot for your partner, but [...]
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Question 3 in a series of some of the most asked questions (with answers) that I have received in my years of practice: Q: My partner used to desire me sexually, but lately he treats me like a roommate and has said he has lost his sexual desire. Is there anything that can be [...]
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