Most people are waiting for their partner to be the person they want them to be and they think the only way the marriage will be good is if their partner changes. You have the opportunity to change this and have a great relationship with your partner by first evaluating how you perceive your partner. [...]
When individuals or couples come in to see me, they are dissatisfied with something in their lives. Part of my job is to help them see how they got to where they are and usually they need to break some habit that is blocking their happiness or start a new one that will bring more happiness. However, [...]
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A DAY TO LAUNCH YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER TRAJECTORY!!! TODD CREAGER’S Couples Workshop When: AUGUST 21ST from 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. Where: Irvine, CA • Learn powerful thought provoking new ways to view your relationship and partner that will make it easier to get unstuck from unsatisfying behavior patterns. • Experience at the workshop [...]
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After a while, one partner may begin to feel like the parent and the other feels more like the child. This post covers how to deal with this situation.
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In this video, I discuss dealing with pain. In order to have an alive, passionate relationship, you need to develop the emotional muscle to deal with pain constructively. Typically, we deal with pain in a fight or flight way that ultimately disconnects the couple that could lead to decreasing sexuality and decreasing pleasure. As you [...]
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As you all know it is my passion and purpose to help you all have the “The Long Hot Marriage” I describe in my book. I saw that social networking is the new way to really get my message out to everyone. I found Sabrina Gibson and joined her 7 Strategies to Social [...]
This blog brings up how to think about and deal with the problem of a partner doing internet porn.
This is another one of my series of the most asked questions (with answers) that I have been blogging about. I go into greater detail about the subject of this particular entryin my book, “The Long, Hot Marriage.” You can learn about and purchase the book on my website- www.toddcreager.com or at www.thelonghotmarriage.com. Q: I feel like [...]
Q: My partner and I are so different. Can you have a good marriage with someone whom you apparently have nothing in common? Most couples have many differences. Just like the North and South poles of a magnet, opposites attract at least to a degree. It is not necessary to be interested in what your [...]
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Q: It has been so long since I have felt close to my partner. Is there any chance we can feel close again? A: Unless your partner has grieved the relationship and emotionally moved on, it is very possible to feel close again. Couples get locked into emotional dances that often distance the couple from [...]
