A DAY TO LAUNCH YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER TRAJECTORY!!! TODD CREAGER’S Couples Workshop When: AUGUST 21ST from 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. Where: Irvine, CA • Learn powerful thought provoking new ways to view your relationship and partner that will make it easier to get unstuck from unsatisfying behavior patterns. • Experience at the workshop [...]

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toddcreager on May 24th, 2010

After a while, one partner may begin to feel like the parent and the other feels more like the child. This post covers how to deal with this situation.

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toddcreager on October 18th, 2009

In this video, I discuss dealing with pain. In order to have an alive, passionate relationship, you need to develop the emotional muscle to deal with pain constructively. Typically, we deal with pain in a fight or flight way that ultimately disconnects the couple that could lead to decreasing sexuality and decreasing pleasure. As you [...]

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toddcreager on October 4th, 2009

       As you all know it is my passion and purpose to help you all have the “The Long Hot Marriage” I describe in my book. I saw that social networking is the new way to really get my message out to everyone. I found Sabrina Gibson and joined her 7 Strategies to Social [...]

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toddcreager on September 14th, 2009

This blog brings up how to think about and deal with the problem of a partner doing internet porn.

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toddcreager on September 11th, 2009

This is another one of my series of the most asked questions (with answers) that I have been blogging about.  I go into greater detail about the subject of this particular entryin my book, “The Long, Hot Marriage.”  You can learn about and purchase the book on my website- www.toddcreager.com  or at www.thelonghotmarriage.com.  Q: I feel like [...]

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toddcreager on September 9th, 2009

Q: My partner and I are so different.  Can you have a good marriage with someone whom you apparently have nothing in common? Most couples have many differences.  Just like the North and South poles of a magnet, opposites attract at least to a degree.   It is not necessary to be interested in what your [...]

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toddcreager on September 7th, 2009

Q: It has been so long since I have felt close to my partner.  Is there any chance we can feel close again? A: Unless your partner has grieved the relationship and emotionally moved on, it is very possible to feel close again.  Couples get locked into emotional dances that often distance the couple from [...]

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toddcreager on September 4th, 2009

Here is another question in the series of most asked questions also with an answer (of course). Q: I feel like no matter what I do for my spouse, it is not enough.  Is there any way to please my partner? A: Almost always, yes.  You may be doing a lot for your partner, but [...]

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