toddcreager on October 29th, 2009

This last part of a 5 part talk show powerfully and clearly describes how you can reach your relationship potential. Cheryl Bricker, the wonderful actress who did a great job interviewing me, (as in all the videos) asks important questions about some of the central points I make in my book about how to have [...]

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toddcreager on October 26th, 2009

In this video, I discuss the importance of  “receiving in the bedroom.”  A subtle and yet  powerful obstacle to healthy sexuality between partners is resistance to receiving both pleasure and love.  I discuss this topic and the link between giving and receiving.   In this video, you find out that “selfish” is not a dirty word.

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toddcreager on October 20th, 2009

This video is Part 3 of a series on how to have “The Long, Hot Marriage.” Find out what it really takes to be a great lover. It is the sexiest video yet (in words I mean; to your relief- I do keep my clothes on!) Very informational and powerful. Take a listen and look!

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toddcreager on October 18th, 2009

In this video, I discuss dealing with pain. In order to have an alive, passionate relationship, you need to develop the emotional muscle to deal with pain constructively. Typically, we deal with pain in a fight or flight way that ultimately disconnects the couple that could lead to decreasing sexuality and decreasing pleasure. As you [...]

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toddcreager on October 14th, 2009

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toddcreager on October 4th, 2009

       As you all know it is my passion and purpose to help you all have the “The Long Hot Marriage” I describe in my book. I saw that social networking is the new way to really get my message out to everyone. I found Sabrina Gibson and joined her 7 Strategies to Social [...]

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toddcreager on September 18th, 2009

Committed relationships are challenging.  Most of our challenging endeavors require a mentor, role model or teacher.  For example, if you want to become a good pianist, you need to take lessons and practice; the same goes if  you want to be an excellent skiier, doctor, etc.  Being a great marital partner is AT LEAST as challenging [...]

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toddcreager on September 11th, 2009

This is another one of my series of the most asked questions (with answers) that I have been blogging about.  I go into greater detail about the subject of this particular entryin my book, “The Long, Hot Marriage.”  You can learn about and purchase the book on my website- www.toddcreager.com  or at www.thelonghotmarriage.com.  Q: I feel like [...]

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toddcreager on September 9th, 2009

Q: My partner and I are so different.  Can you have a good marriage with someone whom you apparently have nothing in common? Most couples have many differences.  Just like the North and South poles of a magnet, opposites attract at least to a degree.   It is not necessary to be interested in what your [...]

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toddcreager on September 7th, 2009

Q: It has been so long since I have felt close to my partner.  Is there any chance we can feel close again? A: Unless your partner has grieved the relationship and emotionally moved on, it is very possible to feel close again.  Couples get locked into emotional dances that often distance the couple from [...]

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