toddcreager on November 17th, 2009

     I have been doing marriage therapy for 27 years and every couple is interesting and fascinating as well as unique.  When doing couples therapy, I need to be aware of the intricacies and idiosyncracies of each partner and the couple as a whole.  However, whether a relationship thrives or not depends on the answer [...]

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toddcreager on November 15th, 2009

Carla Young is the founder of momeocommunity.com which is an online community that is a resource for mom entrepreneurs.  It is a great website and I encourage mom entrepreneurs and mom entrepreneur wannabees to check it out.  I found Carla to be interested, interesting and intelligent and asked meaningful questions about relationships, busy moms and [...]

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toddcreager on November 11th, 2009

I have talked about this issue before but it is such a frequent question, I thought it would be worth writing about again. Having an affair is very destructive for relationships. Some marriages never survive it. However, I have helped many couples through this crisis and they actually had a better relationship than before. That [...]

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toddcreager on November 4th, 2009

Carol Ann Fried and I interviewed each other in Las Vegas at Blog World, 2009. She was promoting the book, “The Power of Giving,” a book I heartily recommend, and I got to talk about the importance of giving (in both thought and deed) in intimate relationships. I enjoyed this short interview and think you [...]

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toddcreager on November 3rd, 2009

Listen to this short video of mine on trust. This short video can inspire you to open yourself up to your partner even if there has been hurt and pain. Any comments? Feel free to let me know your reaction to this video.

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toddcreager on October 18th, 2009

In this video, I discuss dealing with pain. In order to have an alive, passionate relationship, you need to develop the emotional muscle to deal with pain constructively. Typically, we deal with pain in a fight or flight way that ultimately disconnects the couple that could lead to decreasing sexuality and decreasing pleasure. As you [...]

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toddcreager on October 4th, 2009

       As you all know it is my passion and purpose to help you all have the “The Long Hot Marriage” I describe in my book. I saw that social networking is the new way to really get my message out to everyone. I found Sabrina Gibson and joined her 7 Strategies to Social [...]

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