toddcreager on May 20th, 2010

The goal for most of us is to have more soul time; more time to enjoy our lives and our relationships. In this post you will find out how to make more time for the people you love in your life.

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When infidelity enters the relationship.

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Couples can make a choice as to how they will approach their money matters. With that understanding and acceptance in place, they can more easily practice good listening, compromising and effective problem solving and resolution.

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toddcreager on March 17th, 2010

You have much influence on what you evoke in your partner.  I am not saying that you are responsible for your partner’s behavior.   He is responsible for his behavior and you are responsible for yours.  We all have the power to choose how to respond to a certain situation.  Having said that, you cannot discount [...]

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toddcreager on March 11th, 2010

I am announcing a brand new in-person group that is intended to help you be on your growing edge, that place where you are up against your own fears and resistance to being all that you really are and all that you want to be.  The group will be a safe, fun and supportive place to have [...]

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toddcreager on February 4th, 2010

Valentine’s Day- Florists and card store owners love the date, as well as jewelers and chocolate candy manufacturers.  Is it a commercial rip-off or a wonderful reminder that we need to think of our partner?  My answer is it is both.  Do people really need to spend extra money on flowers, jewelry or chocolates?  I [...]

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toddcreager on January 20th, 2010

Attention- you hear the word a lot. Stand at attention, Attention Deficit Disorder, Attention-seeking behavior. I actually like the word. I will define it as follows: the act of focusing or giving someone or something your energy. As children, we learn to pay attention in ourselves to what our parents paid attention to in us. [...]

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toddcreager on January 10th, 2010

Todd Creager, Author of “The Long, Hot Marriage” is Doing a Book Signing in Huntington Beach at Tommy Pastrami benefitting the Colette’s Children’s Home Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT, a marriage and sex therapist will be doing a book signing at Tommy Pastrami in Huntington Beach on January 27th from 11AM-2 PM and 5PM- 8PM. Todd [...]

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toddcreager on December 27th, 2009

Here is the Wikipedia definition of ‘masculinity’: Masculinity is manly character. It specifically describes men and boys, that is personal and human, unlike male which can also be used to describe animals, or masculine which can also be used to describe noun classes. When masculine is used to describe men, it can have degrees of [...]

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I have been seeing troubled couples for over 27 years and a large percentage of these troubled couples are trying to work through and heal from infidelity.  Some of these infidelity cases consist of one night stands or very quick affairs; some have gone on for years.  The betrayed spouse is devastated no matter how [...]

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