Attention- you hear the word a lot. Stand at attention, Attention Deficit Disorder, Attention-seeking behavior. I actually like the word. I will define it as follows: the act of focusing or giving someone or something your energy. As children, we learn to pay attention in ourselves to what our parents paid attention to in us. [...]
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Here is the Wikipedia definition of ‘masculinity’: Masculinity is manly character. It specifically describes men and boys, that is personal and human, unlike male which can also be used to describe animals, or masculine which can also be used to describe noun classes. When masculine is used to describe men, it can have degrees of [...]
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I have been seeing troubled couples for over 27 years and a large percentage of these troubled couples are trying to work through and heal from infidelity. Some of these infidelity cases consist of one night stands or very quick affairs; some have gone on for years. The betrayed spouse is devastated no matter how [...]
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Tiger Woods and his infidelity is the most talked about subject across all media, TV, radio, internet and print. His situation raises some important questions about marriage. Is it too much to ask to be monogamous in a marriage? This thought provoking blog post answers this question.
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An important key to relationship well being is discussed in the short video below. Until couples learn how to give and receive feelings, they will be blocked in their attempt to develop a long, hot marriage. The analogy of playing catch is a wonderful metaphor for what it takes for couples to stay connected even through pain [...]
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Carla Young is the founder of momeocommunity.com which is an online community that is a resource for mom entrepreneurs. It is a great website and I encourage mom entrepreneurs and mom entrepreneur wannabees to check it out. I found Carla to be interested, interesting and intelligent and asked meaningful questions about relationships, busy moms and [...]
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I have talked about this issue before but it is such a frequent question, I thought it would be worth writing about again. Having an affair is very destructive for relationships. Some marriages never survive it. However, I have helped many couples through this crisis and they actually had a better relationship than before. That [...]
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For this blog, I want to depart a little from focusing on relationship issues and give you information about podcasting from a leading expert on this topic, Leesa Barnes. Leesa is the author of the wonderful book, “Podcasting for Profit.” She also happens to have a great personality as you will be able to [...]
Carol Ann Fried and I interviewed each other in Las Vegas at Blog World, 2009. She was promoting the book, “The Power of Giving,” a book I heartily recommend, and I got to talk about the importance of giving (in both thought and deed) in intimate relationships. I enjoyed this short interview and think you [...]
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Listen to this short video of mine on trust. This short video can inspire you to open yourself up to your partner even if there has been hurt and pain. Any comments? Feel free to let me know your reaction to this video.

