You have been waiting for him to pop the question and no matter how long you wait, there is always a reason that he will propose later. Or maybe he says, “Let me do it on my time; don’t push me.” The only problem is you have been dating or living with each other for [...]
Continue reading about Why Some Men (And Women) Can’t Commit
I am doing a free teleseminar today(Monday, Oct. 3rd at 4:15 PM Pacific time) titled- The Secrets of a Long, Hot Marriage which are some of my important points I make in my book, “The Long, Hot Marriage. This 1 hour teleseminar is sure to change how you look at yourself and your partner (and [...]
When infidelity enters the relationship.
I have been seeing troubled couples for over 27 years and a large percentage of these troubled couples are trying to work through and heal from infidelity. Some of these infidelity cases consist of one night stands or very quick affairs; some have gone on for years. The betrayed spouse is devastated no matter how [...]
Continue reading about Tiger and Elin- What Might They Be Going Through and What Should they Do Now?
I have talked about this issue before but it is such a frequent question, I thought it would be worth writing about again. Having an affair is very destructive for relationships. Some marriages never survive it. However, I have helped many couples through this crisis and they actually had a better relationship than before. That [...]
Continue reading about How Can I Trust My Partner After He/she Has Had an Affair?
Listen to this short video of mine on trust. This short video can inspire you to open yourself up to your partner even if there has been hurt and pain. Any comments? Feel free to let me know your reaction to this video.
This blog brings up how to think about and deal with the problem of a partner doing internet porn.

