When infidelity enters the relationship.
You have much influence on what you evoke in your partner. I am not saying that you are responsible for your partner’s behavior. He is responsible for his behavior and you are responsible for yours. We all have the power to choose how to respond to a certain situation. Having said that, you cannot discount [...]
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Attention- you hear the word a lot. Stand at attention, Attention Deficit Disorder, Attention-seeking behavior. I actually like the word. I will define it as follows: the act of focusing or giving someone or something your energy. As children, we learn to pay attention in ourselves to what our parents paid attention to in us. [...]
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Todd Creager, Author of “The Long, Hot Marriage” is Doing a Book Signing in Huntington Beach at Tommy Pastrami benefitting the Colette’s Children’s Home Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT, a marriage and sex therapist will be doing a book signing at Tommy Pastrami in Huntington Beach on January 27th from 11AM-2 PM and 5PM- 8PM. Todd [...]
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Here is the Wikipedia definition of ‘masculinity’: Masculinity is manly character. It specifically describes men and boys, that is personal and human, unlike male which can also be used to describe animals, or masculine which can also be used to describe noun classes. When masculine is used to describe men, it can have degrees of [...]
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This is a very short and to the point video on how to bring the best out of your partner. We homo sapiens totally underestimate the power of our perceptions of others and how it affects others. With our intimate partner, amazing changes can occur when we begin utilizing the power of our own perceptions.
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I have been seeing troubled couples for over 27 years and a large percentage of these troubled couples are trying to work through and heal from infidelity. Some of these infidelity cases consist of one night stands or very quick affairs; some have gone on for years. The betrayed spouse is devastated no matter how [...]
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Tiger Woods and his infidelity is the most talked about subject across all media, TV, radio, internet and print. His situation raises some important questions about marriage. Is it too much to ask to be monogamous in a marriage? This thought provoking blog post answers this question.
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An important key to relationship well being is discussed in the short video below. Until couples learn how to give and receive feelings, they will be blocked in their attempt to develop a long, hot marriage. The analogy of playing catch is a wonderful metaphor for what it takes for couples to stay connected even through pain [...]
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I have been doing marriage therapy for 27 years and every couple is interesting and fascinating as well as unique. When doing couples therapy, I need to be aware of the intricacies and idiosyncracies of each partner and the couple as a whole. However, whether a relationship thrives or not depends on the answer [...]
