There is no need to wait for your partner to make a positive move first. You could become the one to be conscious. You can be the one to choose your behavior as opposed to react to an internal feeling state. You can be the one to act and speak in ways so that you get more of what you want from your partner. This takes developing the emotional muscle I talk so much about.
Self awareness is an important tool for relationship improvement. This blog article discusses this so you can begin removing blocks to relationship satisfaction.
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A DAY TO LAUNCH YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER TRAJECTORY!!! TODD CREAGER’S Couples Workshop When: AUGUST 21ST from 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. Where: Irvine, CA • Learn powerful thought provoking new ways to view your relationship and partner that will make it easier to get unstuck from unsatisfying behavior patterns. • Experience at the workshop [...]
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Click here to check out my video about a phenomenal event for couples! Todd Creager talks about his powerful and unique workshop for couples that he is doing on August 21, 2010 in Irvine, CA.
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I am called a therapist/ marriage counselor/ sex therapist. When working with couples, I can also be called a tour guide that takes you both on an interpersonal safari. Safaris are adventurous; you never know exactly what is up ahead. I am your guide in this process whether you come for therapy sessions, do phone consults, webinars or read my book, “The Long, Hot Marriage.” It is all about leaving the familiar.
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When infidelity enters the relationship.
Valentine’s Day- Florists and card store owners love the date, as well as jewelers and chocolate candy manufacturers. Is it a commercial rip-off or a wonderful reminder that we need to think of our partner? My answer is it is both. Do people really need to spend extra money on flowers, jewelry or chocolates? I [...]
Attention- you hear the word a lot. Stand at attention, Attention Deficit Disorder, Attention-seeking behavior. I actually like the word. I will define it as follows: the act of focusing or giving someone or something your energy. As children, we learn to pay attention in ourselves to what our parents paid attention to in us. [...]
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Todd Creager, Author of “The Long, Hot Marriage” is Doing a Book Signing in Huntington Beach at Tommy Pastrami benefitting the Colette’s Children’s Home Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT, a marriage and sex therapist will be doing a book signing at Tommy Pastrami in Huntington Beach on January 27th from 11AM-2 PM and 5PM- 8PM. Todd [...]
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This is a very short and to the point video on how to bring the best out of your partner. We homo sapiens totally underestimate the power of our perceptions of others and how it affects others. With our intimate partner, amazing changes can occur when we begin utilizing the power of our own perceptions.
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