toddcreager on September 9th, 2009

Q: My partner and I are so different.  Can you have a good marriage with someone whom you apparently have nothing in common? Most couples have many differences.  Just like the North and South poles of a magnet, opposites attract at least to a degree.   It is not necessary to be interested in what your [...]

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toddcreager on September 7th, 2009

Q: It has been so long since I have felt close to my partner.  Is there any chance we can feel close again? A: Unless your partner has grieved the relationship and emotionally moved on, it is very possible to feel close again.  Couples get locked into emotional dances that often distance the couple from [...]

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toddcreager on September 2nd, 2009

Question 3 in a series of some of the most asked questions (with answers) that I have received in my years of practice:   Q: My partner used to desire me sexually, but lately he treats me like a roommate and has said he has lost his sexual desire.  Is there anything that can be [...]

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toddcreager on August 31st, 2009

This is the 2nd question of the common questions I get from the couples I help.  The first question with an answer can be read in my post of August 27th. Q: We fight all the time; can we ever learn to stop fighting? A:  When couples are constantly fighting, it is because both people [...]

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toddcreager on August 27th, 2009

Over the course of the next 2 weeks, I will write down some of the more common questions I have been asked and give you my answers.  If you want to learn more about how to have a passionate marriage, check out my book, “The Long, Hot Marriage” on my website-www.toddcreager.com.   Also, feel free to [...]

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toddcreager on July 24th, 2009

I am always wanting to improve ways of having a positive impact on people in their relationships at home and at work.  I am looking for input from you and if you could answer one or more of the following questions, I would be very grateful. Question 1:  Part 1: What do you think is [...]

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